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What Kids Want to Know
Students’ Unedited Questions and Comments about Sex
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The most frequently asked questions:
1. Is sex good or bad?
2. What is sex?
3. When should you have sex?
4. Why do people have sex?

4th Grade Girls
What is sex? And why do people say that?
Why is sex bad?
Do you know me and my sister do not like sex because it is bad?
How come people get scared when they hear the word sex?
What does sex mean?
What is sex for?
Why do boys look at girls’ chests?
I know there are two kinds of sex. Are there any more?
Why do we have sex?
When can I have sex?
I know that there are two meanings to sex but why do people get grossed out when you use the word meaning boy or girl? Why do people react to the word sex like that, other than the reason it means the other meaning?

4th Grade Boys
What is sex?
Why do people have sex?

5th Grade Girls
Is sex good or bad?
Why is sex important to the Christians?
Why is sex the most important to Christians? P.S. You don’t have to answer.
Do you have to have sex?

5th Grade Boys
Is it good to do sex or bad?
Why did they make sex?
At what time should you have sex?
Why do you have sex?
What age do you do it?
Am I too young to get a girl pregnant?

6th Grade
Why do people have sex?
How old should you be to have sex and get married?
How do people have intercourse?
Why does it hurt having sex for the first time?
What’s the pleasure in having sex?
What is the “climax” of sex?
Why do young people, like teenagers want to have sex?
How does somebody become sexually active?
Why do some people in couples have multiple partners?

6th Grade Girls
Why is sex so important?
Does sex really matter?
Why do people have sex?
How do people have sex?
How do people have intercourse?
Why does it hurt having sex for the first time?
What’s the pleasure in having sex?
What is the “climax” of sex?
Why do young people, like teenagers want to have sex?
How does somebody become sexually active?
Why do some people in couples have multiple partners?
How old should you be to have sex and get married?

6th Grade Boys
Do you have to have sex?
Why do people really have to have sex?
What age do people start?
When should you have sex?
Can 10 year old males have sex once with 10 year old females and not get her pregnant?

7th Grade
What is sex exactly? How do you do it?
When do you know you are ready to have sex?
How old should a girl or boy be to have sex?
What makes having sex at an early age bad?
What is wrong with sex for the seventh grade?
What are you to do when you have feelings about sex and you would like to try it?
How can you start a conversation with your parents about sex?

7th Grade Girls
Why shouldn’t I have sex at 13?
What does the Church expect of me?
Can you live with someone before you get married?
What are you to do when you like to touch boys and boys touch you?

7th Grade Boys
Why does the church teach that you have to be married to have a kid?
Would a slow sex song with a boy and a girl make them lose their virginity?
If a male sticks his penis in a female is that still considered having sex?

8th Grade
Being attracted to the same sex – is it a sin?
Are you still a virgin if you have oral sex?
The thought of sex repulses me. Is there something wrong with me?
Is it stupid if I stay a virgin until I get married? If so why? If not, why?

8th Grade Girls
What does sex involve?
What age does the church think it is OK to date?
How do you know that it is the right time to have sex?
If sex is good why shouldn’t we try it? Why is it a sin to try?

8th Grade Boys
Is sex intercourse?
How far should a 14 year old go with a girl that is one or two years younger than you?

High School Students
What is sex defined as?
What all types of sex count as regular sex?
Is it wrong to think about having sex?
How did God come up with males and females?
Why is it a sin?
Why does God frown upon sex?
Why is it so dangerous, yet so beautiful?
How do you lose your virginity?
If kids know sex is a huge commitment to that person, why do they do it for fun?
If God created our bodies to start having sex at an early age, and our minds to make the commitment of marriage much later, why is it wrong to have sex before marriage?


Mary Lee O’Connell, CRNP - 8/04